tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398591131004787516.post8067549200306663239..comments2023-04-02T07:04:46.667-05:00Comments on BPositive. BFree: Feeling a Little Gloomy?B Positivehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02943332938367222160noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398591131004787516.post-33064729126973589252011-02-05T21:18:21.358-06:002011-02-05T21:18:21.358-06:00I too need to remember to honor my gloominess, alt...I too need to remember to honor my gloominess, although I need to be better able to pull out of it!Rheahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14946871947753103346noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398591131004787516.post-61904028146985945812011-01-15T23:38:46.578-06:002011-01-15T23:38:46.578-06:00Wait, I need to get a tissue! xoxoWait, I need to get a tissue! xoxoBonnie Goldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13255614364812419513noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398591131004787516.post-64007712042548715492011-01-15T10:07:58.408-06:002011-01-15T10:07:58.408-06:00Visualize your dream everyday. Think about it real...Visualize your dream everyday. Think about it really strongly. And in anyway that you can chip away small ways that can help you start making your way towards it. It's not a crazy dream and it's not out of the cards. Keep it strong in your mind! I think it's amazing. And I think you're amazing!B Positivehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02943332938367222160noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-398591131004787516.post-9135308375337400642011-01-15T09:02:59.410-06:002011-01-15T09:02:59.410-06:00I used to find myself in the gloomies years ago, b...I used to find myself in the gloomies years ago, before I knew who I really was. Going to school for Special Ed, having friends that really weren't friends, never feeling like I fit in. What was I suppsed to be doing with my life? I loved Special Education, all of the schools I was placed in felt right, but the school didn't, so I found a job as a preschool teacher and finished my classes at night. My pool of friends changed, I met a wonderful man, now my husband, and have two beautiful, talented, smart daughters ( and a new son-in-law that is just as wonderful).<br /> I am not a pre school teacher anymore, haven't been for years. What I do now as an event planner is exciting and different all the time. Did I think this is what I would do with my life? Nope, it just happened. I enjoy it, but it's a lot of work, and people take advantage. I go above and beyond the call to make the events feel special and individual to each client. That makes me happy. Do I still get gloomy, oh yeah, but my incredible family and my wonderful friends help with that, and they don't even know it.<br /> Do I still sometimes think what do I want to do when I grow up? All the time! I sometimes think that I am doing what I do for everyone around me, and it is true in part, I sometimes wonder after meeting clients, going to networking events, trying to get more work... what the HELL am I doing? But, bills need to be paid, and we need to eat, and don't get me wrong I like what I am doing. But as anything else in life, it is stressful! <br /> What do I do when I feel like this? Sit down with my husband, talk about what needs to be done, and we try to get it done. Does it always work? No, so we will give it a time frame and then decide on the changes that need to be made. <br /> It may feel better to write it down and talk about it, but if it still all stays the same, it isn't going to get better. There may have to be compromises in your plan to fix things, but if you work at it you will eventually get where you want to be.<br /> Have a vision of what you want that would be perfect for you. I don't mean winning the lottery, that won't fix anything, but a few bills. Here's my dream:<br /> We live in an old Inn, with rooms for a B&B, we serve breakfast, and the occasional dinner. Our daughter's mother-in-law lives down the road,( we love her) and does all of our baking.(YUM) This B&B is in the Northern part of the East Coast, and both of our daughters and their families live nearby. <br /> When we have the address we will send you a post. I'll see you in my dreams!Bonnie Goldhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13255614364812419513noreply@blogger.com